Last Saturday evening we had a going away party with our Sacramento friends, and it was a really wonderful time to see dear people we have missed as we've been preparing. Being an extrovert I did not want the evening to end. As the night progressed I realized this party was not just for Emily and I.
During my seven years in Davis and the last three in Sacramento I have watched as many good friends have come and gone off to do wild and crazy things. This is a wonderful reality, and I have always been happy for my friends, but the truth is it's hard to be the one remaining behind. Those leaving have new adventures and new worlds to immerse themselves in, while those left have a world now diminished.
Having time to celebrate together is important; those leaving need it, but those left need it too. Moving away without saying good bye can be easy for those moving because it avoids the dreaded task of having to say good bye to everyone. Making time to say good bye and to celebrate friendships is a way to honor those relationships and provide those left behind with some mark of closure.
I have really appreciated every going away party in which I have been able to wish the adventurer the best, and I was glad to have the opportunity to provide others with this as well.
Friends and family, you make life wonderful. We cherish the memories we have, and look forward to adventures to come.
